Don’t tease

It is one thing to flirt but teasing can land you in trouble. Have fun, clean fun. If you are interested in a man you don`t need to lead him on into jumping to the wrong conclusions. Don`t offer what you don`t intend to give. The man may become heavy if you don`t give him what you have been suggesting you are going to give him.

Give him room to breath

Don`t crowd him too much or cling to him. Don`t follow him around or keep your eye on him. He is probably out for the same reason as you, to flirt with all the girls. Instead back off and play it cool – keep him guessing.

Don’t let rejection get you down

All of us at one time in our life experience rejection from the opposite sex. You might feel a bit down at the time of it happening but you can`t let it hold you back. If we never got rejected we would all be with the wrong guys (it may sound strange but it is true because we might just decide to settle with someone without having set our goals higher.)

Don’t fidget

Fidgeting is a sign of nervousness and lack of confidence and can put many people off wanting to approach you. Even if you are nervous hold your posture and keep your hands and legs still. Better still get onto the dance floor and put your hands and legs to good use.

Don’t get to drunk

This is the last but the most important. Being drunk can make a usually ugly guy seem handsome and can lead you to give him your phone number or worse still going back to his place and waking up next to him in all his unsightly glory.

When you are drunk you also aren`t aware of your surroundings or what is happening and can also leave you forgetting what took place the night before, good, or bad. This is the one time you need your friends. Make sure that they don`t leave without you and that they see to it that you get home safely.

How was your day?

Always an ice breaker and a great way to build up a level of communication as the question will no doubt be reciprocated.

You look really nice, where did you get (item in question) from?

Clothing or fashion accessories are always a hot topic of conversation.

How was work?

So much can happen at work, lives revolve around work quite often for most people – again another great topic starter.

Hey I like that (object in question)?

If you are in his home comment on an ornament or a piece of furniture, pick out a not-so-obvious object and ask about it as more often than not the more obscure items come with a story or a tale to tell. And hey, we all like to talk about our belongings and our treasures and what they mean to us.

Have you seen any movies recently?

Be braver, ask him whether he has seen such and such film. If you have, but he hasn’t, you can tell him about it and ask him if he’d like to go to the cinema some day with you. If he has, then you can both reminisce about it and it could also be a sign that you have the same taste in films.

What kind of music do you listen to?

Music, we all love it. Men love to talk about music or concerts. Who knows, you may share the same interests…

What sports do you play or like?

Men also love sport and women who are into their sport can be quite a turn on for the opposite sex. If he plays a sport, tell him you wouldn’t mind watching him in action some day – get an invite. You never know, you could also support the same team, ask him if he fancies meeting up before or after the next game.

Other conversation topic starters:

What did you do this weekend (week)?

Have you been to (a local restaurant)?

What kind of foods do you like?

Where are you from?

Where did you go to school/college?

Have you read any good books lately? Was it interesting?

What do you normally do for fun?

Do you like (an interest of yours)?

The key to striking up good conversations with the opposite sex is good listening skills and being yourself. Don’t be shy either. Ask interesting questions, but formal ones. Don’t ask informal ones or really personal questions to start with. Those type of conversation topics will come when a bond of trust is in place.

Lastly, work at it! Start today, go up to a work colleague or even someone standing next to you in the lift for example and strike up a conversation. Just be polite and friendly. Talking is good and will boost your own self confidence even if you have no interest outside of friendship with the opposite person.

“Excuse me, I’m sorry but I can’t help but notice how much you look like my first wife, can I ask you your name?”

“If I said you had a good body, would you hold it against me?”

“Are you tired? Because you’ve been running around my mind all day.”

“Did the sun come out or did you just smile at me?”

“Do you believe in love at first sight or do I have to walk by you again?”

“Did it hurt?” “Did what hurt?” “When you fell from heaven.”

“That shirt is very becoming on you… and if I was on you, I would be cumming too!”

“Hey, I lost my phone number… Can I have yours?”

Guy: “Can I see your hand?” (He draws a little river then a bunny on one side and says he can’t get to the other side because he will go glub glub glub.)

Girl: “What was the point of that?”

Guy: “Just wanted an excuse to hold your hand.”

“Are you religious? Because I could be the answer to your prayers.”

“Is there an airport nearby or is that my heart taking off?”

“If I followed you home, would you keep me?”

“I think I must be dying because I’m looking at Heaven.”

“Do you sleep on your stomach… can I?”

“I know they say milk does a body good but damn, how much have you been drinking?”

“Why don’t you come here sit on my lap and we will talk about the first thing that pops up.”

“If I could rearrange the alphabet, I’d put U and I together”

“HEY!!!! Wanna go halfers on a baby?”

“That dress looks great on you! It would look even better in a pile on my bedroom floor!”

“Just wondering, what would you like for breakfast tomorrow morning?”

“If it’s true that we are what we eat, I could be you by morning!”

“Your father must have been a thief… he took the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes.”

“It must be a day off in heaven for an angel like you to be amongst us.”

“Are you busy tonight at 3:00 A.M.?”

“Baby, somebody better call God, because he’s missing an angel!”

“Can I borrow a quarter? ["What for?"] “I want to call my mom and tell her I just met the girl of my dreams.” OR: “I want to call your mother and thank her.”

“I’m new in town. Could you give me directions to your apartment?”

“If you were a tear in my eye I would not cry for fear of losing you.”

“Get your jacket, you’ve pulled.”

“Here is a quarter, phone your parents and tell them you won’t be coming home tonight.”

“Have you ever kissed a rabbit between the ears? (Pulls his pockets inside out) Would you like to?”

“Do you have any kids? Would you like to make some?”