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How do you really know if it is lust or love? In a lifetime the average person falls in love at least 4 times. But is it really love? Here are the signs to be aware of before you decide if he is the right one or not.
Communication
Being honest with each other in a relationship is very important and it is also important that you get to know the person properly before you commit yourself. How well do you know him? Is the only talking you do bedroom talk?
Good signs
- You talk openly about life issues such as finances, children, things that frighten you, where you want your life to go.
- You can argue and come to some sort of compromise at the end of it. Better still you argue it proves that you have the ability to talk to each other.
- You are open and honest with each other about your feelings.
Warning signs
- You only know his favorite color, what paper he reads. You are afraid to ask him in-depth questions about his life for fear of rejection or what you might find out.
- You don`t discuss how you are feeling with each other and it builds up inside you, often resenting each other.
- Neither of you is willing to forgive one another.
You have showed enough leg that any more would have revealed your knickers, your eyes are aching with batting your eyelashes so much, but is he interested? Here are some sure signs that he is interested and some that tells you to forget him.
Sure signs he is interested
Whether you have or haven’t flirted with him he is more flirtatious towards you than any other woman that are around him.
If his friends start asking you questions such as, what is your name? what do you think of ….? (the guys name.) Or even if his friends are paying attention to you after he has been staring at you. This often means that he has been talking about you.
If he keeps smiling at you from the other end of the room.
If he listens to what you are saying and not just staring at your breasts.
If he asks you to dance before asking anyone else.
If he slips you his phone number.
A lot of people are still virgins when it comes to kissing. A lot of people can kiss but don’t know how to kiss properly. Here are the basics to kissing. Once you have mastered kissing then you can try other styles and techniques of kissing.
How to kiss
1. Hygiene – the last thing anyone wants is to be kissed by someone who has yellow teeth or bad breath. Brush your teeth twice a day and floss to get inbetween the gaps. Your partner will love to be kissed by you if your mouth and breath is clean and fresh.
2. Get into a comfortable position – you don`t want to have to stop a few seconds into kissing because your back is twisted. Sitting comfortable means no back pain and longer kissing.
3. Embrace your partner – but don`t squeeze him/her. Cuddling each other so that your faces are touching is perfect. You could cup your partner’s face gently in your hands.
4. Move your faces closer. Don`t bump noses. Both of you must tilt your head slightly to the side so that your nose is touching the side of the other`s nose.
5. Kiss your partners lips gentle – closed lips kissing to start with. Close your eyes and let the warmth of each others lips take over your senses.
6. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else.
7. Lightly brush your tongue a cross your partners lips this will entice him/her to open their mouth.
This list is designed to be a quick check for you to review. Use it to get ideas to maintain your relationship, to give it a positive boost or just simply for some fun. Print this list off and give it to your partner and then take turns each on fulfilling what each other wants.
1. Hug him.
2. Write a love note.
3. Call him at work just to say “Hi.”
4. Give him a foot massage.
5. Tell him a joke.
6. Caress him with slow gentle strokes.
7. Go for a walk with him.
“Would you like to meet my parents?” Gulp! Meeting his parents for the first time can be more nerve-racking than going on your first date. What if they don’t like me? What if I don’t like them? What if I say something wrong? These and many more questions will be flying around your head. But don’t worry – we have some useful tips for surviving the introduction with your in-laws.
First Impressions matter
Go girl, this guy must be serious if he wants you to meet his parents. But remember first impressions are very important. If his parents take a dislike to you on your first encounter they may never accept you and if they do it could take a long time.
Get wise
Find out as much as you can about his family by asking him questions about them such as: has there been any recent deaths that you could avoid? The last thing you want is to tell them that you want to go diving, only to learn his uncle has just been killed by a shark attack. (I know it ain’t likely but it is just hypothetical OK.)
And if you know that his parents are very conservative, you may want to cover up that tattoo or temporarily remove that nose ring – or at least have your partner warn them of your body art – before meeting them.
We all have the ideal man in our head who we would like to settle down with for the rest of our lives. Or we have our fantasy man. But what about those types of men we should stay clear of and not date?
The mummy’s boy
This guy probably lives with his mother and if not, close enough for her to pop in for tea (most nights). She will have helped him pick out his decor and there will be photos of her all over his apartment. He goes for sunday dinner and has several cartons of homemade meals in the refrigerator.
Why you should stay away: You will never live up to his mother and although he will love and cherish you forever he will take his mother’s side every time.
How to get shot of him: Tell him you don’t like his mother.
OK so you fancy the guy in the office and he feels the same way but is an office romance really a good idea? There are many issues both positive and negative to consider before engaging in office romances. Here are a few to think about.
Office Romance Pros
- You will already know a bit about each other.
- You don’t have to go looking for a date.
- You get a free lift to and from work.
- You can have sex in the storeroom and not feel guilty.
Men, what is it about pickup lines? Here we point out some of the cheesy and downright hysterical pickup lines to look out for from the opposite sex.
“Excuse me, I’m sorry but I can’t help but notice how much you look like my first wife, can I ask you your name?”
“If I said you had a good body, would you hold it against me?”
“Are you tired? Because you’ve been running around my mind all day.”
“Did the sun come out or did you just smile at me?”
“Do you believe in love at first sight or do I have to walk by you again?”
“Did it hurt?” “Did what hurt?” “When you fell from heaven.”
Socializing is the best way to meet new partners and of course, make new friends, but where do we find that new exciting man we are looking for? Here are a few places that may be of interest to help you find a potential partner.
On the Internet – There are many singles’ sites on the net where you can pick and choose from millions of potential partners.
Through a friend – Friends have partners who know lots of single guys and the best thing is she knows you so can pick suitable applicants.
Bingo night – You might win more then the house.
At work – You are probably already friends and will know a little about him.
Late night shopping at the supermarket – You will find a lot of single guys doing their shopping late at night.
How many times have you been reading a paper or magazine and come across the personal ads? How many times have you looked at a personal ad on the Internet? How many times have you wanted to reply to one? And how may times have you wanted to write one but didn’t know where to start? Worry not, here are all the tips you need to write your own personal ad and how to reply to one.
Writing a personal ad
What are you looking for?
Write a list of all the things you are looking for in a man. For example, tall, dark, handsome, rich, old/young. Now cut the list up. For example:
“Looking for tall, handsome rich guy in his mid 20’s.”
Personal’s usually only allow so many words so it is important that you put the most important things that you are looking for in a guy instead of silly trivia bits such as ‘must have blonde hair, blue eyes’ etc.