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Blind Date Basics
Your friend has just set you up with a guy you have never met and know nothing about, except what she has told you. You have those fears. What if I don`t like him or what if I like him but he doesn`t like me? Well don`t worry, we are here to help. Read More…
Chatroom dating
Chatrooms are a great place to meet potential friends, and perhaps lovers and even better you don’t have to dress up and pass visual inspection to go there. The anonymity of a chatroom means that if you mess up or you don`t want to continue to get to know him you can just leave the chatroom and don`t go back or you can change your log-in nickname. This is not a license to be obnoxious, but it does give you plenty of room to practice making friends with strangers. Read More…
No matter what you think, to be a great flirt it’s not necessary to be devastatingly attractive, rich, smooth, or good at batting your eyelashes. To master the fine art of flirting, follow these simple guidelines and you will be on your way to being the best flirt in town. You should now be confident enough to try flirting. If you aren`t go back and try again.
Give out the right signals
Be sure, and this is very important, that you give out the right signals. If you are interested in someone enough to want to take it further than just flirting, then flirt like mad. However if you are flirting just for the fun of it (and there is nothing wrong with this and most women flirt just for fun) make sure that you and the man knows this, and that your body language ain`t telling him otherwise. Also some men, in fact most men, can be a bit on the slow side when it comes to reading into what a women wants, which may mean you might have to spell it out for him.
Dress for the eye
If you want someone to approach you it is much easier if you`re wearing a conversation starter (i.e. a badge, a crazy wig.) This will also show that you have a funny side. If you are trying to attract the attention of the office hunk wear a bit more make-up and a skirt that reveals a little bit of leg, (but not short enough to reveal show panties.)
Don`t rely on others to make things happen for you. The only way to get the man you want is to go out and get him yourself. Men like women that are confident, women that will approach them. You aren`t in the playground now, where you would get your friends to ask the boy from sixth form out for you. You are an adult now and if you don`t want to settle for second best you have to go out and get your man. Alone, without help from your friends.
Don’t tease
It is one thing to flirt but teasing can land you in trouble. Have fun, clean fun. If you are interested in a man you don`t need to lead him on into jumping to the wrong conclusions. Don`t offer what you don`t intend to give. The man may become heavy if you don`t give him what you have been suggesting you are going to give him.
Give him room to breath
Don`t crowd him too much or cling to him. Don`t follow him around or keep your eye on him. He is probably out for the same reason as you, to flirt with all the girls. Instead back off and play it cool – keep him guessing.
How many times have you been in a lift with someone, stood at the bar or bumped into the guy of your dreams but you haven`t had the courage to talk to him? Well you are not a lone because it happens to us all. (Unless you are my friend Sally of course).
It was a Sunday afternoon and I was waiting in a local bar for Sally to arrive. We hadn`t seen each other for ages so we decided to meet for lunch and catch up on all the latest gossip. When she walked in I couldn`t believe what I was seeing, Sally wearing a low cut top and the tiniest of skirts I had ever seen with a pair of strappy heals on. (Talk about your Sunday best.)
Looking down at my own tatty jeans, trainers and sweater that was 2 sizes to big, you can pretty much say I felt a bit underdressed. I hadn`t noticed the way she walked before but now I couldn`t help but look, she was swaying her hips like they were about to fly off. And I wasn`t the only person to notice – all the men there turned to look.
When the barman came over to take our order he couldn`t keep his eyes off of Sally. When I give him my order he just said yeah then turned to stare at Sally again. Well I couldn`t believe what happened next. She began curling her hair around her fingers looking straight into his eyes and with a seducing sultry voice asked him what was the dish of the day. I had never seen a man blush so much in all of my life and to this day I still haven`t.
The fine art of flirting
How many times have you been in a lift with someone, stood at the bar or bumped into the guy of your dreams but you haven`t had the courage to talk to him? Well you are not a lone because it happens to us all. (Unless you are my friend Sally of course). Read More…
Flirting Body language
This is the language where you don`t need any words. Women have been doing it for hundreds of years to attract the man they want. Becoming fluent in body language will ensure that you will be skilled in attracting the right man and sending the get-lost signal to the wrong man. Read More…
Flirting no, no’s
Don`t rely on others to make things happen for you. The only way to get the man you want is to go out and get him yourself. Men like women that are confident, women that will approach them. You aren`t in the playground now, where you would get your friends to ask the boy from sixth form out for you. You are an adult now and if you don`t want to settle for second best you have to go out and get your man. Alone, without help from your friends. Read More…
Get out there and flirt
No matter what you think, to be a great flirt it’s not necessary to be devastatingly attractive, rich, smooth, or good at batting your eyelashes. To master the fine art of flirting, follow these simple guidelines and you will be on your way to being the best flirt in town. You should now be confident enough to try flirting. If you aren`t go back and try again. Read More…
Whether it’s you or your partner who decides to end your relationship, it’s not easy to break up. Nobody enjoys breaking up but sometimes it has to be done. Feel good about breaking up with these tips.
1. Don’t drag it out – When it is over, it’s over. You’re not doing your partner or yourself any favours by delaying the inevitable. Rather sooner than later.
2. Be honest – The oldest line is “it`s me not you” Although this might be easier the only way you can truely help this guy is by being completely honest with him and it will help him understand why you are breaking up.
3. Don’t overlap – The worst thing you can do is be seening someone before you tell your guy that it is over. Plus your future partner will always have that doubt in his head. Will you do the same to him?
I remember my first job. There was this gorgeous guy working there and the only problem was I had never talked to him… but I knew I wanted him. Every day I wore my most revealing clothes, flashed my legs whenever he was about and caked my face in makeup. I did this for two months without even talking to him and he didn’t even notice me.
Then one day I thought all my birthdays had come at once. Here I was standing in the lift with him. The next thing I did I will never forget until the day I die. I jumped up at him and kissed him full blown on the lips.
The poor bloke nearly had a heart attack. I told him I had been after him for ages but that he hadn`t even noticed me. He exploded shouting that he had seen me and thought that I had been acting like a tart and that he was married but even if he wasn`t I wouldn`t stand a chance.
Well, I slapped him for the insult, walked out and never returned. This funny incident taught me a valuable lesson – just be yourself (oh, and find out if he`s married!).
Virtually everyone has been dumped at some time in their life. I know I have and I know how much it hurts. Rejection is like a severe pain, something twisting your insides. You may even feel nausea, headaches and even sickness. You may even find that for some reason you are subject to every cold and bug within a mile of you. Picking up the pieces is very tough.
You will wish that your life could go back to the way it was before he left and you will live in hope that he will return. You may even feel that nobody will ever want you and that you will never find love again. This is of course nonsense but you will not realise it until the day you are finally over him.
So, how can you get over the pain? How can you learn to live again? How can you stop feeling that you are unlovable and unwanted and that fate has marked you out for a lifetime of solitude, misery and bad luck? How can you start to enjoy your new single life and start to have some fun?
There is nothing worse when meeting someone for the first time than that awkward silence after greeting each other. Kick the silence into orbit with these conversation starters.
How was your day?
Always an ice breaker and a great way to build up a level of communication as the question will no doubt be reciprocated.
You look really nice, where did you get (item in question) from?
Clothing or fashion accessories are always a hot topic of conversation.
How was work?
So much can happen at work, lives revolve around work quite often for most people – again another great topic starter.
You’ve had a hard day at the office (or even harder – had a toddler running riot all day) and the last thing you feel is sexy. But why shouldn’t you? Here are 10 great ways you can feel sexy and with most of them you don’t even have to leave your home!
Take the plunge: Add some scented bubble bath, light some candles, play some soft music and spend an hour in the bath. When you get out rub body lotion all over you from head to toe or better still get your partner to do it.
Read: Go and buy yourself some good erotic fiction. Or try an erotic story website. You could even try writing your own erotic fiction then read it to your partner and re-enact it.
Go naked: (under your clothing any way.) Go to work without your knickers on. But if you wear a skirt make sure it is a long one. This will make you feel sexy the thought that nobody knows that you have no knickers on will send you wild.